Collecting crystals has been a passion of mine. I’ve been acquiring them for over 25 years. I find them to be beautiful and interesting, each one is unique not only in its looks, colour, and vibrancy but also in its energy. I attempt to have willpower when it comes to shopping for crystals, but for me, it’s certainly not easy. At times, I feel like the crystals have chosen me. I’ll see one, and I’m drawn to it. It’s almost like a magnetic attraction.
Over the years, I’ve collected many, there are some that are definitely meant for me, and I’ve used them for my personal practice. In addition, I’ve also given many away. When you find yourself in the company of a crystal, you might notice that you don’t really use it personally. It could be that it is waiting patiently for the person it is meant for. In the meantime, you are only its caretaker. If someone sees the crystal and is drawn to it, then it is likely meant for them. Unless it’s a favourite, I will generally let them keep it and hope they find a true connection with one another.
Note: For my articles. blogs and posts I use the term crystal and gemstone interchangeably. Other terms like gem, jewel, stone, and rock may also be used.
Before you begin collecting, there are a few things to consider.
· Are there specific types of crystals you are interested in collecting?
· Are you drawn to the look of certain stones?
· Do you want to focus on the energy and healing properties of crystals?
Once you have decided on the type of crystals you want to collect, you can start researching to find out more about their properties and availability.
If you are a beginner in the collection of crystals.
There are a few things that you should learn about them.
Learn the basics of crystal healing. Although crystals can be used for decoration, many people use them for their healing qualities. It’s important to understand the basics of crystal healing, the principles of energy, how to cleanse and charge crystals, and the different types of crystals and their healing properties.
Know how to store your crystals. Storing crystals correctly is important. Some crystals are damaged by heat, light, or water. Make sure you store your crystals in a safe place and away from direct sunlight.
Handle your crystals with care. Crystals can be very durable, although others may be quite fragile. They should always be handled with care. Never drop them on a hard surface, as this could cause them to crack, chip, or shatter. Be careful, they have been entrusted to you for safekeeping.
Whether perfect, clear, or even battered, it does not affect the crystal’s potential for healing. It is better to choose stones that you are drawn to. Trust your intuition.
Choosing stones is all about intuition. Take your time and try to connect to their energy. Remember, they may have been handled perhaps by many people, so they will have to be cleansed. Although, just by holding them, you should be able to feel whether this is the stone for you or not. You may even find yourself unconsciously holding onto it while you are looking around. You might put it down and then keep thinking about it and coming back to it. This is a good sign that it is meant to go home with you.
You may feel overwhelmed by the number of options available when it comes to gemstones. So, what is the best way to choose a stone that is meant for you?
Here is a technique you can use to find crystals in the shop:
Begin by standing in front of a group of crystals.
Close your eyes and relax. Concentrate on finding the right crystal.
When you are ready, open your eyes. Do you see a crystal that stands out or that draws your attention? If so, pick it up.
Another option, if you know what type you want but are not sure which one to choose, begin by running your hand over the top of the stones. If you have picked up a handful, run a finger over the stones until it naturally rests on one.
Once you’ve chosen one to consider, close your hand around it and feel its energy. What does it feel like? How does it make you feel? Does it feel like it is one you should be taking with you? Is this stone meant for you?
At other times, you may be drawn to a particular crystal without knowing the reason. When this happens, the crystal has likely found you. Whether it is intended for you to keep forever is uncertain but at the present time, it wants to be with you. However, it could be for someone else, perhaps even someone you haven’t met yet. Keep an open mind.
When you are choosing a crystal for a specific purpose, keep that in mind when concentrating on what crystal you should be picking. You may even feel an energy response to the selection which could be a flash of light, a vibration, a tingling sensation, a joyful feeling or even the sense of the crystal jumping up and down and saying “Take me! Take me with you!”
Most times it all comes down to attraction. You are drawn to one another. When that attraction is finished, the Universe will find a way to facilitate a new person to be drawn to the crystal. Its purpose in your life is complete and it now longs to work with another. This person will somehow be drawn to it, and you will see them resonate with the crystal.
There are times when I’ve had someone drawn to a crystal I actively use and don’t want to give away. In these cases, there is nothing wrong with keeping it. In fact, there have been a few times when I’ve had to remind someone to give me back a crystal when they’ve almost walked out of my house with it. I always have a giggle because I know my crystals are all beautiful and have wonderful energy. They flirt a lot.
The most important thing to remember is that you must feel right with the stone. Consider mentally asking the stone if it is right for you, or the person for whom it is intended, and see whether you get any impression one way or the other. Or perhaps wait for a first response, yes or no.
Be open to finding crystals or crystals finding you. There are several ways you may find them rather than going to a store and purchasing them. You may unearth them, they might be found in a mine or quarry, in the forests and mountains, in a shop, gem show, or even as a gift from someone else. I’ve personally given many as gifts to others over the years. It’s almost always a big hit with people and gives me a chance to teach someone new about the amazing power of crystals.
When selecting stones for healing there are a few things to keep in mind. Try to avoid crystals that are too big or too heavy. These will likely be placed on someone’s body, and you don’t want them to feel uncomfortable. Keep in mind, any that are too small can easily get lost. Flatter stones will stay in place more easily than round ones.
As you begin searching for your crystals you may find yourself with an entire handful at the end of your shopping excursion. If you are a beginner, I’d recommend starting with two stones that you are attracted to and that make you feel happy. Although if you wish to buy a few then go for it.
Remember you can also choose to wear crystals as well such as rings and bracelets. I have several pieces and find it’s a simple way to incorporate gemstones into my daily life. Don’t forget that they will also need to be cleansed. When you wear crystals, you also have the energy of their creator infused in it as well. If possible, I enjoy meeting the maker of the jewellery or learning about them. It adds a little something special to the piece.
Crystals are a great way to connect with the spiritual realm and can be a powerful tool for enhancing your life. Some of the best crystals for beginners are:
Amethyst: Encourages inner strength and peace of mind.
Rose Quartz: Connects with the heart chakra, promoting love and compassion. Especially self-love.
Clear Quartz: Helps to amplify the energy of other crystals and increase focus.
Citrine: Helps to manifest abundance and bring positive energy into your life.
Hematite: Grounds the spiritual and physical body, promoting stability and balance.
When you are ready to purchase, perhaps consider doing research to choose a reputable source that sells genuine crystals. You can check out online reviews to ensure you get quality crystals.
With all crystals, it’s important to take good care of them. Be sure to cleanse and charge them regularly to keep their energy vibrant. How this is done will be in my next couple of posts.
I hope this helps you get started on your crystal-collecting journey. Feel free to reach out if you have any more questions. Enjoy your crystal collection!
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